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You’re a coward and an awful friend.

You know you hurt her right? Instead of being an adult and telling her you didn’t want to be friends you just deleted her from your life. 13 years. I met you at one of her parties. She always had nice things to say about you and then you go and hurt her like this? It’s been a couple years and she still gets upset and she doesn’t deserve it, you do! You play victim and woe is me on your social media but you threw away a person who would have stood by you through anything. And the sad thing is she still misses you and would do anything to talk to you again. I however know you’re an asshole for what you did and I hope karma comes back at you for the pain you caused someone who had been nothing but loyal to you since the day you met.

Mister Rogers Neighborhood

Is now probably over run by empty condos shops that sell $7 bottles of organic jiuice & hipster tattoo shops like the DTES here in Vancouver

I don't know

I have a hard time telling if some people are just completely sadistic, or if they're just completely oblivious to what they're doing.

To EM from SM

The worst mistake I ever made was losing you as a friend! I've regretted it for the last 30 years. I was an ass to you when you were always so good to me. I want to make it up to you if that's possible ? I hope you or someone sees this to pass it on.look for me on FB please!! Love to Em from SM.

Monkhood Mistakes

After finding I didn't get much from casual dating or sex, I thought I'd give it up for a while. I chose abstinence for a long time, thinking it would help me see more clearly and be better able to focus on what I wanted in life, and helping others. I'd spent so much of my teen years and young adulthood chasing after relationships and sexual experiences that I thought I'd overdone it, and that maybe I'd given up too much of myself in that pursuit, and in helping the others flourish. But I over did the abstinence as well. It worked at first, but to my surprise, that later turned me into a fiend: I turned into a hater, thinking I didn't need closeness. And I grew dismissive of love, thinking I couldn't have it anymore. And I grew self-conscious, for lack of experience. More or less, my view on love became fatalistic. I've dealt with a lot of haters in the past. I always thought people hate because it's easier. I'm just baffled I did this to myself.

Plastic Straws

Are not going to cause an apocalypse

Not Sure

How to talk about someone that you're seeing to someone that you're in love with?

I learned something from TV

I've been bingeing an old TV show and in one episode, the characters are reminiscing about relationships they've had in the past where the sexual chemistry was off the charts. One of them mused that "we've all had a relationship like that" and how it burns hot and fizzles fast. It was at that moment I realized a relationship I had a few years ago which resembled that description was never meant to last. A relationship like that can't be sustained for long. I'm long done mourning the loss of that relationship but it was nice to have someone, even if it was a TV character, put it all into a different perspective.

At least one Vancouverite has proven to be as ignorant as some people think we are

On the morning of May 23rd I unintentionally left a pair of prescription sunglasses on the Knight Street (#22) bus. I know I left them on the bus because I had them when I got on the bus but did not have them after I got off the bus. When I realized what had happened I reported the "loss" to Coast Mountain's Lost & Found that afternoon. I have been to the Lost & Found at Stadium Station and phoned the Lost & Found several times. Sadly, these glasses have never been turned in. Why not?!?! These sunglasses are no good to anybody else but me. I doubt that whoever found them has the exact same prescription as me. I hope that whoever found them, and decided to keep them, suffers from blurred vision, dizzy spells, headaches & nausea. That's the door prize for wearing prescription glasses when you don't need to. These glasses originally cost me $730 and it's going to cost me $950 to replace them. So thank you to the ignorant person that found them for not doing the right thing & turning them in. You are a shining example of a selfish ass.


I feel like I’m destined to never have sex with another guy, after a difficult breakup with someone with whom I shared exceptional sexual chemistry. We were together for many years, and even though our relationship was turbulent, we were both turned on by the other. It was much more than sex though, but that was an important component of our relationship. Since I don’t feel physically attracted to the majority of men I meet, and since if I’m not feeling chemistry I won’t have sex, I think the odds are good that I’m cursed to never have sex again.

Fork in the road moment?

Haven't been to Langley in years because of some painful memories there. Part of me prefers to stay away and keep a far distance but another part of me says I should just go there and forget the past. Perhaps it's no good to let the past stop you but on the other hand some places just bring out the worst in you.

No need to be a jerk

You know I have crush on you, but telling me that you're hooking up and how it was a stress release hurts me. Just be straight with me and tell me the truth to stop liking you. No need to be a jerk towards me.

Thank you

You are my partner at work and a dear friend. My heart is full of platonic love for you. Sometimes I wonder if it could be romantic love but I stop that thinking quickly. I can’t say everything about how much I appreciate you because it might come across the wrong way. But I am so lucky to have you in my life and hope I never lose you. I love you.

Cyclists are trying to kill us

Are you a cyclist in the GVA? Do you ride at night with a rapidly flashing light that endangers everyone around you (like another cyclist, driver, or pedestrian who could get a seizure--or in my case a migraine that causes me to completely lose my vision while walking or driving)? If so, please be respectful and turn that solid light on from now on.


The SkyTrain from Coq

I saw you really dark long jet black I think , but you walked toward me . I wonder were we both...


Savage Love: Men making mouth music mistakes

I was discussing my lack of oral sex with Sam and he said he’d be willing to “help me out”.