The Lovecast is delighted to welcome Mistress Matisse. Dan and our favourite dominatrix/sex-worker rights activist talk about getting started with domination, the perils of being a sex worker, and (what else?) 50 Shades of Grey.

When planning a three-way with your wife and a friend of yours, how do you choose the lucky friend? And how can you minimize the awkwardness when you make the ask?