"I don’t want to sleep with my wife anymore because there is never any foreplay and a few minutes into it she’s telling me to hurry up."
A straight cis woman in her early 40s seeks Dan's advice on how to deal with pent-up sexual frustration.
"I thought if I buried my kink with enough shame, it would go away and I would somehow turn normal."
Dan answers people's questions rapid-fire.
Being so attuned to other people’s emotional states that you feel their pain—being an empath—sounds exhausting.
Dish the dirt if you've got the herp.
Would it really be SUCH a bad idea to send him ONE email?
Sometimes Person A tells Person B what Person A knows Person B wants to hear regarding Topic X in the hopes that Person B will feel differently about Topic X after the passage of time or after Person B has made a large emotional investment in Person A.
"I thought about warning him that his activity is public, but then I saw more."
I found out about a past boyfriend and looked through her emails. I found out she dated her married boss for three years.
"I’m a heteroflexible married cis woman in my 40s. I’m also a POS cheater and a catfish."
“My penis and balls aren’t ‘man’s parts’”
Should I continue to have casual sex with someone I’m in love with?
There are a lot of hot Asian dudes out there.
"I want someone who has heard more sexual secrets than probably anyone else in the world to tell me what he thinks."
Let’s say my kink is edging and I edge myself for a few days leading up to a date.
Brother-in-law needs to gay-man up and admit the truth to himself and the rest of his family.
What follow are the best reader-suggested definitions for “with extra lobster”, with occasional commentary from yours truly.