Dan advises a swinging couple to disclose their herpes status.
A couple that met on FetLife and fell in love is now facing difficulties over porn, sexual secrets, and cuckolding.
The Golden Rule can get in the way of secret perving.
Dan Savage points out that longtime relationships can often survive cheating, but sometimes you have to draw the line.
Dan responds to a hetero woman who doesn't want to make her partner feel self-conscious.
Porn star Devin Franco advises a reader who works in gay porn to choose when and to whom he wants to disclose his alter ego in order to create boundaries between work and real life.
He's dominant with her but sends thousands of dollars to a dominatrix.
The 1987 cult comedy Withnail and I has lost its power to do real damage, according to Dan Savage.
Dan Savage answers a serious of questions on everything from condoms to the so-called shortage of top men.
Dan Savage advises a mistreated reader to unload on her toxic ex.
Dan says tells a letter writer that he made a mistake by telling his girlfriend about a previous affair.
Snoopers might find things they don’t need to know.
Dan Savage believes that dealing/coping with a mental-health issue means that you are in “good working order”.
Dan Savage advises a reader to use a voice memo app to leave messages for a friend who gets off on cuckolding details.
Dan Savage says that when a pattern of cruel behaviour appears, don’t just wait for them to change.
Dan Savage turns the table on a letter writer upset about her husband's behaviour.
If pills have banished both your libido and your kinks, Dan Savage advises seeking medical help with a different dosage or a new drug.
Frontline workers may want to consider therapy if what they're experiencing on the job is affecting their sex lives at home.