Dec 1 Dan Savage tries to put things in perspective for a woman who received a rude surprise after a fantastic session of oral sex.
Nov 24 Dan also offers advice to an older man who prefers younger women and to a woman whose boyfriend issues overly restrictive edicts.
Nov 17 Dan advises an AMAB reader who identifies as nonbinary and leans “toward femininity” that they can self-identify as a lesbian because there are no identity cops out there.
Nov 10 Sometimes, it’s important to take a good look at yourself when you're feeling frustrated in the dating pool.
Nov 3 Dan Savage savages a reader who outed a boyfriend who may be gay.
Oct 27 Jealousy and desire flare up at different times for one letter writer.
Oct 20 Dan's first letter writer wants to know if she should talk to her boyfriend about a sexually transmitted infection with symptoms.
Oct 13 Plus, she wants to know if the guy committed sexual assault.
Oct 6 Also, letters on sex-positive terminology, urethral-electrode sounds, masturbation, orgasm denial, and straight guys who demean gay men.
Sep 29 Holding one’s pee for a manipulative spouse can lead to potentially serious health complications.
Sep 22 Dan’s expert says that as long as you are doing no harm on the hookup site, you can indulge your kinks.
Sep 15 Dan Savage advises a reader who was shocked by the revelation.
