Dan also offers advice to an older man who prefers younger women and to a woman whose boyfriend issues overly restrictive edicts.
Dan advises an AMAB reader who identifies as nonbinary and leans “toward femininity” that they can self-identify as a lesbian because there are no identity cops out there.
Sometimes, it’s important to take a good look at yourself when you're feeling frustrated in the dating pool.
Dan Savage savages a reader who outed a boyfriend who may be gay.
Jealousy and desire flare up at different times for one letter writer.
Dan's first letter writer wants to know if she should talk to her boyfriend about a sexually transmitted infection with symptoms.
Plus, she wants to know if the guy committed sexual assault.
Also, letters on sex-positive terminology, urethral-electrode sounds, masturbation, orgasm denial, and straight guys who demean gay men.
Holding one’s pee for a manipulative spouse can lead to potentially serious health complications.
Dan’s expert says that as long as you are doing no harm on the hookup site, you can indulge your kinks.
Dan Savage advises a reader who was shocked by the revelation.
Dan advises one member of a gay marriage to have guilt-free sex with a coworker after his partner declared he was no longer interested in sex.
Plus, Dan offers advice regarding a fit man who keeps losing his erection and resentment linked to a sexual tryst.
Plus, questions about opening up a marriage to new partners, spanking, and how to persuade a partner to enjoy foreplay.
Dan Savage maintains that people can set limits within reason on obliging a partner’s kink and still be GGG.
Plus, a 24-year-old virgin, Dan's use of the language, and how to deal with an abusive clergyman.
If you think walking in on two people getting it on is awkward, try inviting your bi lover to dinner with your parents only to discover that he once had a threesome with them.
A letter writer wants to know what to do when his spouse repeatedly brings home a case of the crabs.