What happens in the hot tub between couples at a vacation home stays in the hot tub—unless someone tells.
Plus, what's a man supposed to do with a hall pass when he's in love with his girlfriend?
And what does being in "good working order" really mean?
Plus, bi siblings come out, straight guy experiments with trans sex workers, and a closeted pec lover.
Dan Savage advises a reader who subscribes to a neighbour’s porn service that he probably shouldn’t mention it if they bump into each other while running errands.
Dan advises a swinging couple to disclose their herpes status.
A couple that met on FetLife and fell in love is now facing difficulties over porn, sexual secrets, and cuckolding.
The Golden Rule can get in the way of secret perving.
Dan Savage points out that longtime relationships can often survive cheating, but sometimes you have to draw the line.
Dan responds to a hetero woman who doesn't want to make her partner feel self-conscious.
Porn star Devin Franco advises a reader who works in gay porn to choose when and to whom he wants to disclose his alter ego in order to create boundaries between work and real life.
He's dominant with her but sends thousands of dollars to a dominatrix.
The 1987 cult comedy Withnail and I has lost its power to do real damage, according to Dan Savage.
Dan Savage answers a serious of questions on everything from condoms to the so-called shortage of top men.
Dan Savage advises a mistreated reader to unload on her toxic ex.
Dan says tells a letter writer that he made a mistake by telling his girlfriend about a previous affair.
Snoopers might find things they don’t need to know.
Dan Savage believes that dealing/coping with a mental-health issue means that you are in “good working order”.