Idle No More: It’s not easy to “forgive and forget” without justice

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      Hundreds of people attended the Idle No More march in Vancouver on Friday (January 11). One of them was Lorelei Williams.

      A 32-year-old member of the Skatin Nation who lives in the city, Williams was holding up a sign stating, “When sleeping women wake, mountains move! Support Chief Theresa Spence.” The words “and the Idle No More movement” were to be next, but she ran out of room.

      As she walked down West Broadway, Williams told me that she believes the public is hearing the message of the indigenous-sovereignty movement. But she took issue with the many people who have responded to it in a racist manner, as well as those who are saying First Nations people should “forgive and forget”.

      “How do you forgive and forget?” Williams said. “Some people think this happened a long time ago—all this residential school stuff and trying to take over our lands. You know, you can’t forget or forgive being taken away from your families.”

      Some facts: More than 150,000 First Nations, Métis, and Inuit children attended Indian residential schools. Many students were forced to live far away from their families and subjected to horrendous physical, sexual, and mental abuse. The last federally-run residential school closed in 1996.

      Williams has a four-year-old son and a seven-year-old daughter. She noted that she and other First Nations people are speaking out about past and present injustices and for the environment in order to give their children a better future.

      “We’ve been silent for so long,” Williams said.

      Not anymore.

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      RUK

      Jan 15, 2013 at 1:54pm

      But is anyone saying that the First Nations should forget? No one should forget. If you forget things, it's pretty tough to avoid repeating mistakes.

      Forgive, on the other hand, could mean that we might wanna consider what else was current thinking when the Gradual Civilization Act was instituted in 1857:

      The West was in an age of empires;

      Slavery was legal in the southern USA states;

      Darwin was writing The Origin of the Species;

      The British were hooking the Chinese on opium to get them to open their ports;

      women's suffrage movement was decades in the future.

      This is not to excuse the cultural genocide of the aboriginal cultures but to put it into context. A lot of behaviours that to us are now clearly grievious moral failings were made.

      Live, IMO, is not about forgetting (or even, really, forgiving) but looking at the lessons of the past and trying to apply them as best we can, today, as we plan for the future.

      The future, I hope, for Canada is one where people of all backgrounds can coexist in general harmony, and where there is conflict, that said conflicts can be civilly aired, shared, resolved, and revisited as needed.

      I think that inherited tribal identities are fading fast, and that that is a good thing...but that's just me