You sound like someone I know, though I don't think i'm a whipping boy; in fact I usually don't think, period. So, making me think would be tricky. That said, I would love for you to seduce me if you are the woman with the right moves and the right heart for me.

Embrace his body now, wake up to him Sunday!!! No time like the present to make him feel like the amazing man he is. Screw the other woman, she's probably the b***h you paint her to be, a horrible person unworthy of his awesomeness.

@ Why wait, she's not a horrible person, they're just horrible for each other now, and as far as I can see she's projecting her disdain for the dead relationship as constant put downs and generally saying things to him (in front of his friends! I can't imagine what she says behind closed doors) to try to make him feel bad about being HIM. And HE is an amazing man who deserves far more love than she has for him. They need to move on, and he needs to move on...top of me.

But there's always another side. People always seem sexy when they're new but who knows what sides of him she was dealing with after the thrill of their newness started to wane? Maybe she's seen things in him he hasn't revealed to you yet. My husband made his ex sound like Godzilla and I thought she sounded psychotic when he and I were still in the "can't wait to wake up with you: stages of our early romance. Now I think of her and wonder how she endured the emotional abuse I put up with from him every single day. I feel guilty for judging her--a complete stranger--based on the stories of someone who was still upset about how his last relationship had ended. I feel sad to think of how lonely and tired she must have felt when she was walking in my shoes, the shoes I was so eager to throw on without inspecting them closely enough which I now wish I could return to the shelf as soon as possible.