Wow....You need to find yourself first. If you can't see beauty within and you need others to tell you that your beautifulthats messed. Don't be like the 80-90% of vancouver girls who are self centred and looking to marry a rich guy who's gonna treat her to fancy dinners and shower her with gifts. Take up some yoga classes that will clear your mind. Hopefully you find a mr right because mr wrong leads to heartaches and divorce headaches.

Oh dear! Don't give up! I watch romantic movies with my girlfriend, kiss anywhere and tell her how beautiful she is many times -- but she gets worried I'm too kind and afraid I will be kind to others (:-( I do see many guys not being able to talk to women well which means listening and sensing but they are around. Try finding some beautiful places and good food.

Sounds like you've been barking up the wrong tree. Let's be honest here, everyone knows women are attracted to wealth and trouble/drama. I myself know that I can blame women for all my failed relationships but the reality of it is that I can't stop myself from going after high maintenance females who are 99% self absorbed. You should take some time to figure yourself out first before you blame all men for your missteps in life. I would bet money that the kind of guys you think you want to be with are not the guys that deep down you desire. Forget about the opinions of your friends... and listen to your heart.

The result of the regular under appreciation of men by today's women. Why any guy would bother to make an effort (other than to get laid) is beyond me. I read the other day that apparently men that hold doors open for women are somehow sexist and actually do it to show their superiority and dominance. I'm an older guy and have been reading for years about how bad men are. You mention how you "give your heart and soul" - what does this mean? Are you giving how you would like to receive or are you asking them what they want and providing it (like bj's and such)? Or are you just sharing your feelings?

Maybe look at the type of guy you go for and where you meet him and how fast you sleep with him. Is there a pattern? I've been in all sorts off relationships. I have always dated good guys who do all this stuff you want your BF's to do. Its who you give yourself to, its not you.

Not many men I've met watch romantic movies or live for mountain top smoochy moments. Sounds like a chic flick fantasy. Maybe you'd like to meet a real, male human who could get to know you instead of delivering a performance for you?

Dude, she doesn't "need" a man to tell her she's beautiful. But being complimented every once in a while is part of a relationship (I think). Hell, I'm a straight woman, and if my best girl friend is looking good, I make a point of complimenting her. The OP is having a run of bad luck. It sucks. I just dumped a man who promised me loyalty and monogamy (very appealing!)...but also expected me to be at his beck and call (-on-short-notice). That's messed up!

Most people cheat when the sex sucks or they are driven to it by a piss poor attitude.

I also doubt that all the men you meet are like that, have you dated EVERY single man that you have met here?

If I said "every woman I have met here is a gold digger" then I must have dated over half a million women which I didn't. The ten women I have dated here were all bat shit crazy and broke but that still doesn't mean every woman is. Nor will I give up dating, just a little more cautious now. Ok, super cautious and almost not bothering.

Try getting a handle on the english language first, aka stop exaggerating and maybe you will meet a better man.

Focus on choosing better.

I know for a fact there are great guys out there who are willing to do things like watch romantic movies to make their girlfriend happy - I've dated them. So what you say is simply not true. I get the feeling that you're one of those girls (and I've known plenty) who secretly like drama, and bring it upon themselves by choosing to date some douchebag so that they can whine about it later. Plus, as one commenter said above, it sounds like you're expecting some type of performance of the "perfect man" from these guys, rather than letting them show genuine affection for you in their own way that might not fit to your cookie-cutter standards. This is why I usually don't fit in with other girls - so many of them are high-maintenance drama queens. 'll never understand that way of thinking.