I lost all my savings, car, friends and a lot of stuff due to a breakup of long term relationship. I have a good job, ok housing, but no friends anymore and was extremely lonely and isolated. I was tired of socializing with upwardly mobile shallow types that don't really care and too busy to socialize. So I hung out at the park, dressed down, old backpack and a few joints..first time I did it I met 3 awesome people who are now my friends. They have nothing materially, lots of emotional pain and they accept me without judgement, and I have better times than had in years. My old friends, family, coworkers would never approve of this, but they have their own lives so who cares...I am no longer alone and I actually laugh all the time now.