The Honest Trust

This is the honest truth people don't want to hear. For a man to be considered datable here he needs to meet two out of the following three conditions have a good job/ be rich, be somewhat attractive, have a good personality. Women can look at this and say this isn't true but in their hearts they know its true. Just look at your past boyfriends. I think men and women need to lower their standards in order to find love her.

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Yep

Jul 15, 2017 at 3:22pm

You're right, not true. - a non piece of trash woman.

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Yes and no

Jul 15, 2017 at 4:15pm

Pretty much any job will do, as long as you're aspiring for better things, and not just sitting on your butt wasting your life away. Some mutual attraction is good for starters. The more positive time you spend with someone the more you begin to care about them. The more you care about them, the more physically attractive they become in your own eyes despite any flaws. That's what I've always found. As long as you're working on yourself, and doing your best to not be a douche to others, you'll likely attract someone. You always got to keep in mind, that they can always do better than you. That being said, they can always do much worse than you too, and they probably already have. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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ummm

Jul 15, 2017 at 5:35pm

Doesn't this apply to everyone everywhere? Unless you're looking for an arranged marriage, each partner should find the other attractive. That doesn't mean meeting some specific physical standards, that means being appealing. And "a good personality" is kind of essential too. What characterizes a good personality is wholly subjective. You know that whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" thing? That. Having a job and being self-sufficient might not be key, depending on one's age or goals, but if someone is looking for a long-term partnership/marriage/co-parenthood, it's probably best that he or she has a way of paying the bills. Why do guys here think women are so shallow? We really aren't. Would you want to date a woman you find unattractive?

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Anthropology 101

Jul 15, 2017 at 8:55pm

Here? You mean everywhere on earth, don't you? Woman are hard wired to seek out security. We've only been doing this city thing for 500 years. Feminism, about 40. Before that it was agricultural and hunter gatherer society's. You don't think we can override our hard coding in a couple of hundred years do you? People are monkeys with language.

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Well

Jul 15, 2017 at 10:57pm

Tell me those aren't rational standards.
Not rich, not attractive, no personality....like where do I sign up.

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absolutely!

Jul 15, 2017 at 11:50pm

This whole idea of finding someone with a job and a good personality is ridiculous. Seriously, who do these women think they are with their standards and stuff?

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So?

Jul 16, 2017 at 1:08am

Seriously, so what? Since when has it ever been any different at any time? Of course both genders are looking for someone who generally has something going for them. They want someone they're attracted to. They want someone with some ability to support themselves. Tell me any time in history when anyone was looking for a mate that is ugly, unintelligent, flat broke, etc. Men want beautiful women and nowadays they also expect her to have a great career as well. I'm not sure what your point really is?

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Srndpty

Jul 16, 2017 at 10:24am

There's nothing unreasonable about those three things.

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Emma12555

Jul 16, 2017 at 10:47am

This post has some truth in it. I wouldn't date someone who wasn't attractive and didn't have a good personality. As for the rich part I think there is a certain segment of the population that does like this.

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Anonymous

Jul 16, 2017 at 11:53am

The whole "lower your expectations" thing is pretty tired. It's pretty unreasonable to expect that people date someone who they can't respect, don't enjoy being around, or aren't attracted to. Maybe you're the one who needs to lower their expectations, you know? Stop trying to date women with standards!

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