Dan Savage

Savage Love: Fans step up with questions about polyamory, sexting, a lover's hygiene, and a marriage proposal

Instagram saves the day after Dan Savage's laptop goes on the fritz.

Savage Love: Why freysexuals avoid sex with long-term partners

Dan says honesty is crucial in any relationship with a freysexual—someone who commits to a romance but does not want to have sex with their partner.

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Savage Love: Dating apps don't have to be risky for couple curious about cuckold experiences

Dan offers advice to a straight guy with fantasies about his wife sleeping with other men.

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Savage Love: Open relationships a problem when feelings surface

Dan says that just because one’s wife can’t get pussy at home doesn’t mean she has the right to get pussy elsewhere and then refuse to extend that same courtesy to her...

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Savage Love: Wife might not want help with her masturbation

Dan Savage advises a reader that when he’s woken by one of his wife’s late-night sessions, he might want to just pretend he is still asleep.

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Savage Love: Storage-nights bondage is safe with right steps

Advice columnist Dan Savage also points out that encasing a loved one in a leather sleeping bag isn’t risk-free

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Savage Love: On the swinging lifestyle and the risk of gonorrhea and other STIs

Dan advises a bisexual female reader in a “monogamish” relationship with a heterosexual man.

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Savage Love: Mystery pain during sex can have several causes

“Vulvodynia, or pain in the vulva, is unfortunately very common, and it sucks.

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Savage Love: Lukewarm lover cools off lust of trauma survivor

Dan advises a reader who has spent four years healing from sexual assault that she should lower her standards for sex partners in her reentry to dating.