Dan Savage

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Savage Love: How to find safe and kinky partners

"I’ve always wanted to tie girls up, but I can never convince a woman to let me."

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Savage Love: It ain’t broke if that’s your nature

I am not able to find a long-term significant other. Am I broken?

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Savage Love: Dilators help relax the pelvic floor

I have not been able to have sex with penetration since having our second child.

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Savage Love: A pet-play primer for kinky kittens

Kitten play is a subcategory of the ‘animal role-play’ or ‘pet play’ kink.

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Savage Love: Boss must realize risk of jacking with worker

"Being naked, erect, and sexual in the same room as my employee felt wrong."

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Savage Love: Keep your kids’ stuff out of your naughty pics

I was involved with a straight man who enjoys cross-dressing and taking explicit photos. The problem is that the props he uses belong to his three children.

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Savage Love: UBC sex researcher opens hearts and minds

Is it even possible for a couple that stopped having sex to start back up again?

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Savage Love: Partners’ needs and deeds don’t always jibe

I’m a 62-year-old woman. I was married for 33 years and left five years ago. We hadn’t gotten along for years, but he never stopped wanting or valuing me for sex—in spite of...