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Savage Love: The difference between being alone and being lonely

The most effective way to address loneliness is to confront it directly.

Savage Love: The realities of making fantasies happen

In fulfilling this fantasy for her, where anonymity and surprise are part of the appeal, what do I tell her in advance?

Savage Love: How to avoid Trump supporters at the swingers’ clubs

I hate the idea of bringing up politics and killing everyone’s collective boner.

Savage Love: The truth about surrogate partner therapy

Surrogate partner therapy is a therapeutic treatment that combines psychotherapy with experiential learning.

Savage Love: My boyfriend won't delete his ex's pics from Instagram

My boyfriend of one year has refused to delete photos from his Instagram account that show him with his ex-girlfriend.

Savage Love: After dumping birth control my libido came back... with a vengeance

I want to have sex with everyone! Men, women, friends, colleagues, acquaintances.

Savage Love: All my gay boyfriend's friends are straight

How can I not let our differences completely destroy the relationship?

Savage Love: Take care with a nut-kicking kink

A guy who brings up his kink every single day deserves to be kicked in the nuts—unless he’s into ball-busting, in which case he doesn’t deserve to be kicked in the nuts.

Savage Love: My massage made me #metoo myself

"She was working on my thigh, but it felt like I was getting my balls caressed."

Savage Love: The lopsided bisexual

" I fall in love with women exclusively, but I love to have sex with men occasionally."