Dan Savage

"I thought about warning him that his activity is public, but then I saw more."

I found out about a past boyfriend and looked through her emails. I found out she dated her married boss for three years.

"I’m a heteroflexible married cis woman in my 40s. I’m also a POS cheater and a catfish."

“My penis and balls aren’t ‘man’s parts’”

Should I continue to have casual sex with someone I’m in love with?

There are a lot of hot Asian dudes out there.

"I want someone who has heard more sexual secrets than probably anyone else in the world to tell me what he thinks."

Let’s say my kink is edging and I edge myself for a few days leading up to a date.

Brother-in-law needs to gay-man up and admit the truth to himself and the rest of his family.

What follow are the best reader-suggested definitions for “with extra lobster”, with occasional commentary from yours truly.

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