Dan Savage tells another letter writer that there’s no need to rush into a relationship with a married man, especially considering that he has no plans to leave his wife for two years.
Dan’s heavy-bondage consultant—who changed his sexual identity from straight to queer—tells a fretful fetishist that playing with other men can be just like playing golf.
Dan Savage answers a grab bag of letters, including one from a woman with an entirely new take on “service” dogs and another about the safety of urethral probing.
Dan advises an AMAB reader who identifies as nonbinary and leans “toward femininity” that they can self-identify as a lesbian because there are no identity cops out there.
