Sigh...
posted March 28th, 2015 at 5:06 PM
I miss having a good time with someone, a little bit of romance. My boyfriend and I are always busy working. And even when we aren’t working, he doesn’t think it’s important to go out on dates. I wish I had someone to take me out dancing, see a show, go to the beach, whatever. Now, I have to do and try to enjoy everything alone. It sucks because I’ve actually got quite a few offers from attractive guys to take me out, which I’d agree to in a heartbeat if I were single… I wish I could take a break for a summer of fun. I haven’t dated much before. Wondering what it feels like to feel attractive and to have a connection with someone. He’s lucky that I love him, and wouldn’t do these things while we’re together… Meanwhile, it feels like all the passion and youth are slowly dying inside of me.
9 Comments
Post a CommentBitter
Mar 28, 2015 at 8:00pm
Awww, you poor thing. Nothing better than cheating on your boyfriend to spice things up a bit.
The first knell
Mar 28, 2015 at 9:09pm
This isn't the death knell of you rrelationship but the bells have officially started. Sit him down. Have an adult conversation about what you need to be fulfilled in your relationship and make sure he tells you what he needs. Give him and yourself the chance to make things right. Give it until May 31 to decide if you are or are not getting what you need and act accordingly.. The summer of fun could still be yours, either way this goes.
Anonymous
Mar 28, 2015 at 10:08pm
This whole post points in one direction, and you know what it is. You need to break up with this person, and experience a happy life. Fear should never hold you back.
Don't worrie,
Mar 28, 2015 at 10:54pm
it is slowing draining from you and then you will be dead.
Telk him
Mar 28, 2015 at 11:15pm
Tell him what your needs are and maybe he will compromise. If not, then how much does he love you? You might grow to resent him if he is a symbol of your life slipping away. Communicate to him about how important this is. It is your life.
preach
Mar 28, 2015 at 11:37pm
I hear ya sista. Seems like once they get you any effort goes right out the window.
kaddy2
Mar 29, 2015 at 3:27am
I blamed my ex for the lack of romance but i realise i could have done things to help get us out of the rut too. Make sure you are doing your part
cul de sac
Mar 29, 2015 at 10:37am
have you told him this? or even just suggested some specific activities like going out to dinner or to movies? that's basically all dates are.
Slam
Apr 18, 2015 at 10:24am
you are obliviously compatible, if not move on. Life will be like that on occasion, every one has goals, if the goals are to benifate each other, or not, it's should be important to both of you. Looking back (married 38 yr.s) some of the toughest times were the best, yes getting through a day at time was trying, but we always were/are stronger together. These times should my your relationship stronger, don't give up. If he's working that hard the 2 of you, things will get better. You will be setup and life will be much better. A goal for a couple should be to be rocking on the porch one day, holding hands, and sharing a life time of memories. The important things in life can't be bought, but yet they are still earned. Focus on what's important to you, know that it won't be easy, but your worth it. You must choose your own happiness, in adverse times. There will always be days when all you can do is get up and put one foot in front of the other, but why should you be different. Stay focus on what's important to you, and most importantly be good to yourself
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