DO NOT move in together

That's what living together is suppose to figure out. If your not happy then move on.

Love him deeply but not in love with him. Huh? Make up your mind, which is it and then you'll know what to do. Not that difficult, as I see it, if you're questioning it, it would be that you don't love him.

Seriously it's better to know that now and hurt, than to do it later when are really sure, drowning in debt and have two kids. Not that I'm bitter or anything.

Well it is a lot harder to get out once you move in...do him a favour and dont break his heart later do it now.

Don't move in with him.

There may be good reasons to live with a person you don't love. You may have a mutually rewarding and stable friendship. I don't know. However, you seem conflicted and seem to be writing from a perspective that you think love is a normal prerequisite for a quasi-marital condition. Clarify to yourself and for yourself if love is something that is necessary, and then do that. I wouldn't advise starting something as important as this if you aren't happy with it.

OMG I met a man who loved his girlfriend, but was not "in love" with her. He cheats on her and she doesn't know it. It is despicable. He is taking the best years of her life because she believes that he loves her and IS IN LOVE with her. You have the makings of a tragedy...seriously. Stop thinking about yourself. God, let him go and let him find someone who IS in love with him.

You do seem confused. Maybe you're just fearful of this new situation. Why not postpone the move and get some counseling to try to clarify your mind?

Why are you gearing up to move in with him if you're not "in love" in love with him? What are you afraid of if you don't move in with him? Are you afraid of being on your own? Are you moving in with him for financial convenience?

Don't move in with him when you doubt your own feelings and intentions about being in relationship with him as his gf.

Maybe you would be better off being just friends?