Insecurities

posted March 21st, 2017 at 9:30 PM

You'll never know that I've stayed single and true to you years later. Your insecurities will never let you acknowledge or accept that. C'est la vie my love.

9 Comments

i am in severe pain and frustration missing you :(

Mar 21, 2017 at 11:45pm

come by and ring up, i don't want to come to the store anymore... it is up to you, i have said and done all i can for years (have been single for years waiting for you, faithful and expressive of my true love for you) to let you how much i love you and am in love with you; you seem uninterested and rejective to my approaches and my real desire to live lifetime with you&onlyyou. I quit chasing now, i am tired and fatigued and exhausted. Noone is to blame Love, we all have issues to solve, i know, myself too. I surrender and now it is up to you to reach out to me; no more games Love . i am in excruciating pain missing you hour to hour daily but will never give up on you&me; i don't know what else to do but to just surrender my one-sided 'chase' and one sided-communication :( ... i await you with courage and strength of faith and will of loyal true love

Years later, meaning?

Mar 22, 2017 at 8:28am

If you mean years after your parting, that's...well it could be construed as romantic

Useless sacrifice

Mar 22, 2017 at 9:17am

If you're not together anymore and they've moved on, you're not doing anybody any favours. Better live your life to the fullest. Someday you'll regret wasting your youth for a romantic idea. The past belongs to the past.

Third Word

Mar 22, 2017 at 12:03pm

For real? Don't let your life pass you by.

If they'll never know

Mar 22, 2017 at 9:21pm

Then whatever you're doing is entirely wasted and pretty ridiculous. I'm sorry to be so brutally honest, but someone should say it. This person has obviously moved on so trying to make them feel guilty is entirely pointless! Do yourself a favour and get some help so that you can move on too.

A

Mar 22, 2017 at 10:51pm

I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand it indicated to me a character of complete devotion. A diamond in the rough so to speak in an age where we all give up too easily.

Honestly though, do you hold out with the hope of reuniting with that person? And if so, why not perhaps reach out to them. Perhaps keep it simple and funny. Like just reach out with something like, I saw this video and I thought you'd like it. Hope you're doing well. You get the idea. Otherwise if you're certain they have no interest in you, I second and third the above posters. Move on, and don't hurt yourself.

Best of luck stranger.

Mar 23, 2017 at 9:02pm
I waited for someone before only because they let word get around about how they supposedly felt about me but unfortunately we both had either prior situational engagements and/or responsibilities.
Although I was able to empathize with their position, they were never able or even considered the possibility of putting themselves into mine. To top it all off there was a whole lot of he said she said nonsense via mutual friends and acquaintances. Whether these misunderstandings that came from all this was intentional or not, I'll never know, but it's not like I didn't try the direct approach for communication and I never closed the door on it. Things certainly got crazy and confused.
I waited for quite some time after that, hoping they had really somewhere deep down felt for me as they had said, and the same way I had felt about them, and they would someday come around to work things out... but their actions and inaction has shown me their claimed feelings were not really all that genuine. They were deceiving me or maybe just themselves.
I let them go. But I still wait. I don't wait for them however. I wait only because waiting is all that I know now after 18 years in total.
Don't ever end up like me. They aren't worth it

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Don't bother.

Mar 23, 2017 at 9:35pm

They would never wait for you. Don't make it about them. They make it about themselves and others before they'd ever make it about you. You should do the same. If there is no one there to make it about you, you have to make it about yourself. Someone has to.