Maybe it will encourage people to think again.

I am voting far-right.... aka. slightly right of far-left out-of-touch.

When your sex life gets boring from sameness, something's got to give. Men will cheat and so will women. Cheating causes distrust, anger and eventually divorce. There is a better solution. Give each other the freedom to enjoy sex with other people. It is as simple as that! I knew my wife was in need of sex and I also knew that there was a black guy I play golf with who had his eye on my wife. One day, on the golf course I told him my wife was hot for his bod. He said, well, I must admit I would love to fuck your wife. I then said, well, I will look the other way if you do. I told my wife about that exchange and she hugged me and said, I love you! The sex they began having was so satisfying for my wife that we no longer argued. I had always had the hots for her sister and I told my wife that and she said she knew it. Her husband was away on a business trip and we invited her over. After some wine and sex talk I began feeling her up and right there in front of my wife we fucked our brains out. Now, we both have great sex lives and our marriage is a lot stronger.

It appears that I’ve spent my life in a state of suspended self-absorption. Now, how do I break free?

Unsure exactly how one works seeing that it's never been allowed to flourish. When we witness the other it seems to take us back way back

I’ve been reading confessions for about 1 1/2 years now, and what I’m noticing is that there seems to be a core group of extremely angry men posting all the time about how all Vancouver women are so terrible, that all they care about is money and looks, and of course that all women just want to use a guy while they sit on their asses filing their nails and waiting until they can take him for everything. I’ve never read so much bs in one place! What has always amused me at the same time as it annoys me, is this total double standard that none of these guys ever seem to acknowledge: they claim that they’re such “good guys” (even though they obviously hate women), and that the only reason they’re not getting attention is because women are “too picky” and only want guys who look good and have money. What they fail to ever mention when they’re ranting about how terrible all women are and how they’re just overlooked, is that the vast majority of men, regardless of how they look or whether they even have a job at all, still think they’re entitled to the best looking women! Are these guys out there approaching an average-looking, no makeup, dowdy clothes, overweight woman? Highly doubtful! All the whining about themselves and all their friends who are (in their minds anyway), deserving of amazing women but are hard done by because the “chads” get all of them, don’t even consider the possibility that the vast majority of women don’t look like their dream girl any more than they look like dream guys! They seem to think that they’re somehow entitled to any woman they desire, and because they’re being overlooked it’s only because women are evil. The harsh reality is that in the world of dating, of course looks count, and I’d venture a guess to say that they count much more for men than they do for women. Not to mention that men also have this “laundry list” of wants just like they accuse the the evil women of having! Except of course they not only want the woman to be fit and gorgeous, they also want her to earn a fabulous income, be willing to pay for at least half of everything if not more, AND, be willing to do the lion’s share of all domestic chores, while being meek and subservient to the guy. So really guys, who are you kidding besides yourselves? It’s not that women are evil simply because they also want to date attractive people, it’s that you can’t handle having women be so much like you. I mean, if you can’t see us as evil aliens, then you might have to acknowledge that we’re just lowly humans just like you.

Actually it was more like a fist. Over and over again. Ouchy waa wa! Ex senator

To those of you thinking your up or down clicks are either not working or counting multiple times, please understand not everything gets updated in picoseconds. The bogey man is not too concerned with your pleasure or displeasure. Carry on.

I'm really disappointed in myself. I didn't listen to my intuition about someone and was giving them the benefit of the doubt for quite some time.But they only saw me as barely human, nothing worth really getting to know, "damaged". I really need to learn from my past but I can't seem to stop making the same mistakes over and over. I know I have no one to blame but me. I just don't want to be this person anymore, one who sets myself up for pain. I would like to find a way to listen to my heart when it tries to send me a message and just not even let myself go there with people that I sense will be careless with my feelings.

I live next to a park and all day people yell at their children and dogs. I'm used to most of it and it rarely bothers me. The most hilarious are the stay at home WASPy moms in their cardigans who just stand on the sidewalk while gossiping with other moms or typing on their phones while sscreamingthreats at their kids without helping their kids gather their shoes and toys. "Come here before I count to three or else you don't get story time!" Most other parents go and encourage their kids or call their Golden Lab to leave but the upper middle class white women always shriek with anger without doing anything to actually teach the kid how to get ready to leave the park. I stand in the window and laugh. It is even more fun than watching the dogs play.