I have two children and I don't think its any man I am dating's business until I am good and ready to tell them. I want them to get to know me first. The last 2 men have just disappeared as soon as I told them. My children are amazing. The men in Vancouver need to grow a pair.


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Fair enough

Feb 20, 2024 at 4:03pm

But i did tell you i have a daughter.
I don't have any issues with kids.
But i think you do.

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Feb 20, 2024 at 5:11pm

They asked you right?
And you said "no".
Some men have issues with liars.

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Feb 20, 2024 at 6:00pm

Sorry lady, but no man needs to give a toss about another man's children.

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The women of Vancouver

Feb 21, 2024 at 8:49am

Need to stop wearing yoga pants all the judgmental towards men & others that don't fit their "acceptable" world.

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From a woman

Feb 21, 2024 at 9:19am

I appreciate why you want to keep quiet about the kids (there's a safety issue that pops to mind), but I was a divorced Mom out in the dating world awhile ago, and I wouldn't have kept it hidden that I had kids. There are people (both men and women) who may not want to deal with children and the challenges that can go with it, and they do have the right to decide it's not right for them.

That said, I'm sure there are lots of divorced men out there who also have kids and would love to have a partner who is in their corner, and understands what they are experiencing with their co-parenting. Perhaps you should consider shifting towards dating men who also have kids.

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Or maybe you need to be honest.

Feb 21, 2024 at 10:18am

Not everyone wants to be a parent so perhaps you'd be more successful at dating if you were truthful about your situation. I can understand waiting to introduce your kids to a potential partner, but I think it's sleazy to not mention them from the very start.

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@The women of Vancouver

Feb 21, 2024 at 10:38pm

They're so delusional. This city and its people are so overrated.

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Feb 22, 2024 at 1:20pm

You posted this same thing a couple months ago, refer back to that.

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No no

Feb 23, 2024 at 12:34am

You’ve got it all wrong!! If said date walks away then they’re not right for you. You should filter that out right from the beginning. Trust me, you don’t want someone in your life that would have walked away if they knew you had children after the first date. Enjoy this precious time with them. Trust me… who cares about anyone else

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