Scared to make the wrong decision

posted November 26th, 2012 at 1:49 AM

I left everything I knew and had behind. I came up here to fallow my heart only to feel like the loneliest girl in the biggest city I've ever been in. A lot of trust has fanished from my relationship. I see opportunity here that I never saw before. The thing is I don't know where to begin and always at the back of my mind is a thought of leaving and starting all over again in the comfort I once new. Is it normal to fall out of love when you thought this one person could be the one? Live in lights or light my way home?

5 Comments

takotsubo

Nov 26, 2012 at 10:15am

...yuo seem to be a really passionate girl...it seems also that, right now, your heart itself tells you that Mr Right is not so right...well, anyway, you have the great opportunity to be here in fair Van...Take a chance to live your own life...with or without Prince Charming...

charles bukowski

Nov 26, 2012 at 4:14pm

you did the right thing following your heart. Continue to do so by shunning comfort over adventure and you will lead the life you deserve and want

@bukowski

Nov 26, 2012 at 7:36pm

Buke! You're still here! I thought that report f your demise in '94 was bunk.

Me too

Nov 26, 2012 at 10:38pm

I've been there, honestly go for it...don't let comfort steal your dreams...you'll kick yourself later

Chance.

Nov 27, 2012 at 2:15pm

I was a lonely girl in the biggest city I've ever been in also. Trust vanished from my relationship as well and I ended up moving back to my home town. I feel at times that it was a bad choice because it set me back a little bit but for the most part I learned that you have to just take a chance with things that are unknown. I want to move back to Vancouver so badly and in time I most likely will. And yes, you can fall out of love in an instant. I watched it happen to me.