I caught myself
posted July 23rd, 2017 at 11:44 PM
Moving on. I met somebody last night and for the first time in so many months I didn't think about my ex at all. I finally have reason to believe I'll be okay.
posted July 23rd, 2017 at 11:44 PM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
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Post a CommentProud of you OP
Jul 24, 2017 at 1:54pm
I had the same experience recently, the grace period was really nice. Unfortunately I thought about my ex once during sex recently, but that's to be expected. Uncoupling synapses or whatever
Goodthing
Jul 24, 2017 at 5:16pm
I hope you enjoyed what you discovered. You will be!
an observation
Jul 24, 2017 at 8:21pm
those who intend deceit and hurt will experience such deceit and hurt reflected back into their own lives .. we get what we give out, like a mirror ... 'Reflektor' great song by Arcade Fire, life is a Reflector of our intentions and actions and words towards others
Good!
Jul 25, 2017 at 1:06am
Sounds like the spell has finally been broken. You've been released, you're free, you're free!
@ an observation
Jul 25, 2017 at 4:36pm
That's a crock of bullocks. I know plenty of people that don't get theirs.
Be careful
Jul 26, 2017 at 12:32pm
I know this feeling, and I'm really happy you feel like you can move on now! But just be careful about putting all of your self worth and future happiness into this new person. Because then if that ends up not working out, you will be even worse off. Trust me, it has happened to me and it was horrible.
Just make sure you are also focusing on being ok with yourself and moving on independently. Then you will be much happier in the long run!
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