I'm Sorry I Ignore You

posted December 19th, 2018 at 3:20 PM

When we occasionally cross each other's paths, usually during our Tuesday evening rituals, I get this feeling like I'm approaching someone who's put out a restraining order against me. I tried acknowledging you and saying "Hi" a number of times after we decided to part ways and I was ignored. Now, when I don't acknowledge you, I feel that it causes you discomfort. And since I do care about you, I wish there was something I could do that would make you feel more at ease. I think that even though we may not be friends anymore I don't see any reason why we can't be acquaintances.

10 Comments

Your idea?

Dec 20, 2018 at 4:03am

Was it your idea to part ways? Leave them alone, and go find a new ritual to attend.

Why not

Dec 20, 2018 at 6:00am

I'm really hoping that you get what you want . Believe when I say I know, pretty much excalty how you feel .

Hahaha

Dec 20, 2018 at 10:43am

Silly man. There is no assuaging a woman who feels scorned. Let her feel her childish emotions. Better off without small people in your life.

@hahaha

Dec 20, 2018 at 6:43pm

Why do you assume that the poster is a woman talking about a man? It could be a man, it could be a woman, and either of them could be referring to a platonic relationship that ended. Your bitterness is rearing it’s ugly head.

OP

Dec 20, 2018 at 8:11pm

... thanks for the replies ... there's a bit of truth in all that brings me a sad comfort.

OP

Dec 20, 2018 at 8:21pm

Your idea? - The rituals are mutually exclusive in the same location, occasionally at the same time.

Why not - Thanks

Hahaha - Our reactions to our emotions more so I think, however point taken.

@hahaha - What bothers us in others is usually a reflection

Anonymous

Dec 23, 2018 at 12:45pm

yeah maybe read their signals and leave them be. I guarantee u this "distress" that u think you're causing is projection.

OP

Dec 23, 2018 at 8:40pm

Yeah, I thought the same after I replied to @hahaha

OP

Dec 23, 2018 at 9:27pm

The penny dropped. My discomfort is in not saying "Hi", I feel like I'm not being honest with my emotions since I really like them ... If they continue to ignore me, I'm okay with that.