He wants kids
posted December 3rd, 2019 at 9:10 PM
We had to end it because he wants kids and I don’t. My heart is broken and has had a hard time moving on.
I haven’t ever met a man like him before and he hasn’t met anyone like me. We cried like babies but we are in our 30s.
Making adult decisions sucks. I still dream of marrying him one day, but that probably won’t happen.
Here’s to hoping that I may come across a child free man that has his shit together (or someone with teenage children).
10 Comments
Post a CommentCameron
Dec 3, 2019 at 11:25pm
Well, you have to find one like yourself. There are many people out there with no desire to have children. I had women in my life that they told me they love me very much and they do not care if I can not have any children. But they changed their mind later and wanted to be a mother. We had to end the relationship in pain. Be honest at the start. Let him know NO kinds in the future. If there is a club out there for this, let me know to join. :)
I find...
Dec 4, 2019 at 8:02am
... the desire for marriage without children to be utterly narcissistic. You know te Princess fantasy Castle story was for producing little princes and princes to continue the lineage, right? It wasn't just so you could have a princess fantasy without the responsibility of children.
What is it that attracts someone who doesn't want kids to marriage? Tax breaks? The wedding ceremony? Showing off the ring to girlfriends?
Sounds familiar
Dec 4, 2019 at 8:43am
I know someone in this sort of situation. I suspect right now she’s having fun playing the field, but she puts assumptions upon the men in her life. She doesn’t seem to put much effort in, the second she sees something she doesn’t like she moves on. Dating in this city is less than ideal, and holding out for perfection isn’t sustainable. I feel sorry for her
Be specific
Dec 4, 2019 at 9:16am
plenty decent dudes don’t want kids but what else? i assume 6 figures, own property, model looks
Dont forget not living in moms basement or doin drugs
That’s what they all say isn’t it
Good for the both of you ...
Dec 4, 2019 at 9:37am
to have parted away. You do not want to be together and be filled with resentment and regrets. You will each find someone more suited for each other.
Vasectomy Guy
Dec 4, 2019 at 10:03am
Waves
Anonymous
Dec 4, 2019 at 8:14pm
As a woman who doesn't want kids, there are lots of men who feel that way! I'm happily with one, but somehow I'm the first woman he's dated who agrees on that value. The good news is, as we age, it's less likely for us to end up having them because expectations are lower for us. You'll get there. Good luck.
Dammit
Dec 5, 2019 at 3:52pm
Too many people on this planet.
Wise choice on the no kids.
Babies are so cute though..
Who doesnt love a baby or a puppy.
No, Too many people
Lol
You Decide
Not hard
Dec 5, 2019 at 9:09pm
Plenty of people don't want children. Also, if you're okay with a divorced man or someone with kids. I'm in my 30s, and it's much harder to find someone without that sort of baggage as you age.
see kid you think you can not
Dec 17, 2019 at 5:16pm
You also think this matters to me, yes we can and will. I know because I was told by a very all knowing guru.
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