You can learn a lot

Breaking up with someone you love is one of the most painful experiences one can go through. So there’s got to be a very good reason why someone would choose to do it. From my own experience with one person (on and off relationship), I’ve learned that you can learn more about a person’s character by how they behave in a breakup than just about anything else that they do. If someone has been insensitive in the actual relationship, count on them ramping up that behaviour 100%. If they’ve been cold and unemotional, same thing. So paying close attention to this particular situation is extremely important, so that the difficult decision you made to end things in the first place can teach you never to repeat it again. I think I’ve finally learned my lesson.

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I had a....

Jan 27, 2020 at 8:28pm

girlfriend that was in an open-relationship...but...she neglected to inform me about it.

3 Rules of a breakup

Jan 27, 2020 at 9:34pm

When you break up with somebody, the first rule is no phone calls. Second rule, don’t go over to their house and drive by to see what they’re doing. The third one is that you don’t show up at their coffee shop and say you’re going to burn it. You just say nope, gone, history I’m moving forward.

First Rule

Jan 28, 2020 at 12:22am

If you truly love someone you don't break up with them to conduct a damned social experiment.

@I had a

Jan 28, 2020 at 3:13pm

Perhaps we were dating the same woman. I also didn't know about it.

@first rule

Jan 28, 2020 at 5:13pm

Huh? Who said anything about breaking up to conduct a social experiment? You’re way off base.

If you truly

Jan 29, 2020 at 10:02am

Are in love shouldn't you want what's best for them. I mean is it because they are violent or abusive do they go out whore mongering, and otherwise cheat on you. Love is not a word we are just suppose to say to someone because we are married to, dating and/or in a relationship with them. It's a word that describes a very powerful emotion/feeling. I've learned a lot about it and I haven't even scratched the surface yet, mostly because I fell in love late and well she was on a different path I guess .. or maybe... nvrmnd she is a woman enough said. But she is the woman I love. I know this, so ask yourself when you see the one you love does it cause a response physically, like your heart skips a beat, are they the most angel like person you've ever seen. Best question though, is this a person my life can get on without quickly? Love is a very deep and complicated emotion and using it as a moniker (label) in today's world is very dangerous to those who get it.

Much to learn about

Jan 29, 2020 at 3:37pm

The person who is dumping as well. Coldness, cruelity and no empathy. These have been in pretty steady consistency over the years. So i learned a lot from the last of a platonic relationship, love is still out there and when you think you found it you haven't why? Not a God damn thing to fucking think about. Peace peeps ...Mc mac Asshole is outty. (Plunk titter bap on floor noice Mike Drop)

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