A judgy person being judgemental about people they think are judging others. You are not in other people's heads - you have no idea how they see others.

Life lessons is - Don't assume.
There could be factors you're not aware of and might not even be able to imagine.

I’m not assuming anything. My opinion is based completely on what people actually say out loud. Obviously I don’t think I’m “inside people’s heads” lol.

I started to view my parents as actual people when I was about 15. My siblings still just see them as mum and dad. They talk about them as if their existence is merely an extension of them. They are the most selfish people I’ve ever met. I feel sorry for my parents because they play into it a little instead of flying the coop which in my opinion they should have done many years ago. Now that they are retired, my wish for them is to move away somewhere and make some friends and just exist happily as themselves and not just exist to parent their adult children. They’ve earned it. I also used to daydream in class about what the teachers did on the weekend. It was fun to imagine the assholes being complete losers. I had a turbo c*nt of an English teacher and I used to just want to pull her aside and ask “do you ever get laid?”

Father forgive me I am a sinner and weak man on my best day these days. Your a loving forgiving and truly powerful spirit who has taken from their busy business to to reprove me. I let you down and now I must start turning 180 in another direction back to you and back to living where I've yet to in this life, a home that love calls home also. I will make more mistakes on my quick paced journey I am ready to let go and let you decide who is best for me in my life from now on. Please Father remember I am very stubborn, picky and selective when choosing my love interest they must be very unique. Please keep my last heart felt friend safe and find her another more opportunity to find love. Please forgive me and don't give up just yet.