keep your f*cked up dating culture where it is.
no guy is dreaming to be someone's 'settle'.

I don’t want to be tied down by you, but I don’t want you to leave my orbit either. I need to have you as part of my record collection of people so I can take you off the shelf and play your sweet music when I feel the urge to. My mental health depends on you knowing your place in my life. You know?

I gave up dating about 2 years ago. From what I read it seems to be like this everywhere, especially with online dating. Most men are porn addicted and both genders are addicted to ego stroking.

Where is the love?

All the good guys I know want to settle down. None of them are on the apps.

I moved here with my wife and it is a very nice place to live, if you’re married or have an SO. As for being single, NO, THANK YOU. How many desperately lonely men have I met here? I lost track a long time ago. So, it’s not just awful for women. Sometimes the grass really is greener elsewhere.

I dont date here anymore. I save my money and travel to see women that are worthy of my time.

Umm, there's a life threatening global pandemic happening right now. The act of "Dating" strangers isn't safe, no matter where you live. Keep it in your pants for now and you may find a friend though.

Have a problem with every man in Vancouver, the problem isn't the men.
Wherever you go,there you are.

Even the guy I just dumped claimed he wanted to settle but every time I tried to suggest moving in together he’d make some excuse and start pushing me away. I just don’t have time. I’d rather be on my own than deal with this crap.

bye...