some men feel the same, shyness prevents the potential sometimes.
Agree
Mar 11, 2021 at 10:06pm
It’s a lovely feeling, especially if it’s requited.
@charlie11
Mar 11, 2021 at 11:11pm
Only some? That's surprising since there are plenty of women that'll treat guys like they're Hitler if they spring a boner for them.
@Charlie
Mar 12, 2021 at 12:37am
Shyness, caused by too many demeaning public rejections. Or submitting to an Inquisition about finances, career,etc for 5 minutes before being deemed unworthy, with the same result.
Androgynous
Mar 12, 2021 at 6:59am
I think most people without a partner feel this way, especially during this time.
Dude...
Mar 12, 2021 at 7:31am
that's what Grindr is all about...
@Agree
Mar 12, 2021 at 8:53am
Allow me to correct your post: *only* if it's requited. Otherwise it is creepy and disgusting and disrespectful. There is no in between. And while I am at it, I could probably correct OP's post as well: "man" should read "my own particular idealized version of what a man should be or at least a reasonably close facsimile". Let's be honest here. We all have standards. I don't care how desperate OP thinks she is, I could show her one hundred men and she could decline every one.
Bonsai Basketball Team
Mar 12, 2021 at 11:49am
Why don't you just be a lesbian? I think you would like it & be more satisfied.
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Post a CommentIt's been 25 yrs for me
Mar 11, 2021 at 9:22pm
And I'm 70 now so will probably not happen again.
charlie11
Mar 11, 2021 at 9:48pm
some men feel the same, shyness prevents the potential sometimes.
Agree
Mar 11, 2021 at 10:06pm
It’s a lovely feeling, especially if it’s requited.
@charlie11
Mar 11, 2021 at 11:11pm
Only some? That's surprising since there are plenty of women that'll treat guys like they're Hitler if they spring a boner for them.
@Charlie
Mar 12, 2021 at 12:37am
Shyness, caused by too many demeaning public rejections.
Or submitting to an Inquisition about finances, career,etc for 5 minutes before being deemed unworthy, with the same result.
Androgynous
Mar 12, 2021 at 6:59am
I think most people without a partner feel this way, especially during this time.
Dude...
Mar 12, 2021 at 7:31am
that's what Grindr is all about...
@Agree
Mar 12, 2021 at 8:53am
Allow me to correct your post: *only* if it's requited. Otherwise it is creepy and disgusting and disrespectful. There is no in between. And while I am at it, I could probably correct OP's post as well: "man" should read "my own particular idealized version of what a man should be or at least a reasonably close facsimile". Let's be honest here. We all have standards. I don't care how desperate OP thinks she is, I could show her one hundred men and she could decline every one.
Bonsai Basketball Team
Mar 12, 2021 at 11:49am
Why don't you just be a lesbian? I think you would like it & be more satisfied.
Me too
Mar 12, 2021 at 1:55pm
Same here
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