I bought

a fleshlight. Odd how people are "comfortable" talking about the use of dildos but when it comes fleshlights, all of a sudden there's a bit of a cringe factor.


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Jul 19, 2022 at 7:16am

My ex had one,no big deal.It's your body and you can please yourself anyway you want.Some people are so prudish when it comes to sexuality. I say "good for you" and as Dr. Ruth once famously said "if it feels good,do it"

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Oversexualized men

Jul 19, 2022 at 8:01am

I think unfortunately it’s probably around the issue of men being taught to be overly sexual, and women to be scared of sex. So it probably just seems like another gross overly horny man. I also think there’s something that seems it’s harder to clean, but that’s a personal thought.

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Jul 19, 2022 at 8:10am

My ex had one,no big deal.It's your body and you can pleasure yourself any way you want. I say good for you,peopple can be so prudish regarding sexuality.As Dr. Ruth so famously said"if it feels good,do it". What's wrong with using a fleshlight? Absolutely nothing.

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Jul 19, 2022 at 9:56am

"You go, girl"

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I have some questions

Jul 19, 2022 at 10:48am

So where did you get it? How much did it cost? Are you happy with it? Does it fit your size? Does it make sounds when you use it? How long does the battery last? Does it have a warranty? What color is it? Is it gender neutral? I'm totally comfortable with the discussion and inquiring minds would like to know.

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Jul 19, 2022 at 2:11pm

Extra Large I hope.

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Jul 19, 2022 at 4:27pm

If commenters don’t know what something is or what it is used for perhaps they should google it and find out before they comment!

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Good On You

Jul 19, 2022 at 5:06pm

While not the real thing it can provide a positive experience. I like the Japanese-made ones as well.

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I don’t care

Jul 19, 2022 at 5:28pm

I don’t think people have a problem with a guy using a flesh light. It’s really just the male version of a dildo. It’s when men want an entire fake woman made of silicone that it gets pretty creepy, and that’s when a lot of women are completely grossed out.

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@I don't care

Jul 20, 2022 at 7:30am

Agree it's creepy to have a sex doll, which have versions made for men as well as women. But, at the same time, I don't think that everyone that owns one is a creep and not everyone can find a partner in this life.

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