It’s all about communication

posted June 7th, 2023 at 5:38 AM

At the end of the day, if communicating with someone is really hard, your relationship is doomed. No matter how good other aspects of it are, if you find yourself not even bothering to try to connect anymore because it’s so frustrating, you might as well just leave. I feel like I’m bashing my head against a wall because of the word salad and evasive nonsense every time I try to have a serious conversation about the relationship. They either act like I didn’t say anything or or they respond with a joke or they just don’t respond at all. I’m already exhausted by it and I can’t imagine wasting any more time on a lost cause. Sadly I’m giving up.

3 Comments

Stand your ground

Jun 7, 2023 at 7:59pm

If that person is truly not listening to your feelings, then that must be a sign it’s time to move on from this relationship. Tell them straight that you’re leaving them.

Closure

Jun 7, 2023 at 11:16pm

If it was me, I would look that person square in the eyes and set them straight. I’d let them know how I don’t appreciate being treated so thoughtlessly all because everything is a joke to them. Then tell them straight up that unless they change their ways and make an effort to fix things, I’m walking out and not coming back. Breaking up with someone can be quite difficult, even when it’s the only way to restore your sanity. Just take care of yourself and leave them behind.