The comment about all men cheating is wrong. It's old. Tell him to take his money and his women with him. You don't want the pain of knowing you're not worthy, and you'll never trust him. Without trust, there is no love. You're not good enough. The family has told you this already. Get out. It's not too late. I was made to sign away everything including my future. When I tried to do anything at all for myself, I was threatened my child would be taken because I could not support myself. I wasn't allowed to work or do anything. It will ruin your entire life. You will be nothing but another possession. He doesn't love you. Run. They will take your self respect next. Go girl. You're better than that.

You are marrying a cheater, an oppressor and his oppressive family. Revenge never helps anything, it only makes for more pain and suffering. "what if he falls in love with someone else?" You are talking about this guy like he's your property, trying to own another human being is impossible. You can't own him and you'll never be satisfied from revenge. Better to be single and broke and alone than to be cheated on, with no alimony to fall back on, trying to think up some kind of revenge like a villain in a movie. Check yourself before you wreck yourself!

This is hilarious. Thanks for the laugh.

And negotiate a clause that determines what financial compensation you can seek if you separate due to his infidelity. Who knows, maybe the lawyer can get you a sweet deal. You shouldn't even sign it without getting one to go over it first... Did you even read it yet?

Be sure you get evidence of his cheating when you're married. Though why you would even want to in the first place when you can't trust him is questionable. You certain you're not in it for the money? Maybe subconsciously?

RUN

I wouldn't want you taking my money either. It's not your money. Are you marrying the man or the money?

The misery resentment and hatred aren't worth anything you can be ever paid. Imagine, the leverage he has over you.

Do not pass go. Do not get married. Better to marry someone poor and stay happy. This is a losing proposition for you. Leave him - short term pain for long term gain. If you know he's been cheating on you then so does everyone else. You deserve better than this and so what if everything is booked and ready to roll. Stop the crazy train and get the hell off!

TROLLLLL

Your comment "As a wife I wont have access to getting revenge by ruining him financially." concerns me. You are already marrying the wrong person when you make a comment like that. You are bitter and angry,and that is not the way to start the beginning of 'the rest of your life'. (NEITHER do all men cheat.) But you are entering into this already on the wrong foot. Cancelling the wedding would be difficult yes...but temporary. Marrying someone you don't love with all of your heart would be horrible...and the pain would last a lot longer.