What really defines a “BBW”

I recently started dating a BBW assuming it meant ‘big breasted woman’ but after a while I realize that this definition maybe incorrect. Perhaps it means ‘big boned woman’ or ‘big body woman’ as yes, the woman I’m dating has bigger breasts along with bigger butt etc but I’m not sure I’d be so egotistical about the BBW term as I don’t think it’s an endearing compliment after all. In the beginning, she kept emphasizing how special her ‘girls’ are but after a month I’m thinking she's fooling herself that being out of shape with above average breasts makes her extra special as she identifies with other BBWs. Maybe I secretly wished I was blessed with big breasts but instead live vicariously through her knowing my breasts combined together wouldn’t come close to size of one of hers. She’s really into going down on me and I like to reciprocate but I’m getting tired of hearing her boast about how wonderful and sexy it is being a BBW whereas I’m just a pear. Maybe it would different if I was a peach?

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He who knows....

Feb 15, 2019 at 12:54pm

I think BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman, and it describes a female who is comfortable with her size.

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BBW

Feb 15, 2019 at 1:16pm

AKA: FLAB. Fat, loud and Beautiful.

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You Know Exactly What It Means

Feb 15, 2019 at 1:28pm

And you are just trolling them. The fat shaming at the gym post must have "triggered" you....

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Ha!

Feb 15, 2019 at 1:31pm

I always thought it was Big Black Woman...

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You, being....

Feb 15, 2019 at 1:33pm

a woman, get a free pass in regards to criticizing a females body. Embrace your privilege.

Well, you

Feb 15, 2019 at 1:59pm

Sound like an ass. Her self confidence isn’t hurting anyone.

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Ya Right Buddy

Feb 15, 2019 at 2:28pm

We both post here every day. The difference between you and I is that my confessions are actually real and about me - not written to put someone else down.

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Its Common

Feb 15, 2019 at 2:59pm

For "larger" women to skinny shame fit women at a higher rate,than fit women shame 'larger" women.

Respect

Feb 15, 2019 at 3:14pm

BBW is an objectifying, sexualized word. Do not use it to refer to human beings.

Flesh-deep

Feb 15, 2019 at 3:52pm

Sounds like overcompensating for insecurity.
Bodies are malleable things. Time changes them regardless of anything else. Cold and darkness slow them down. Heat and light quicken them. Lots of other variables in play.
BBW is useful in suggesting a bigger (as opposed to more athletic) build. That's about all I get out of the label.
Making it into one's idea of self is a bit much.

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