Feel Awfulposted November 18th, 2019 at 8:38 AM Told his Wife and feeling horrible. Lost a close friend and lover. Show 12 Comments 12 Comments Post a Comment Confused about your motivesNov 18, 2019 at 11:46amAnd exactly what did you expect would eventually happen when you made the conscious decision to destroy their marriage? I guess you can at least look back on the good sex. That should get you through the self-loathing. And then you can do it all over again with someone else. i hear youNov 18, 2019 at 12:29pmhad a friend tell his wife.now i have lost the friend and the lover. and the lover was also just a really great friend. too bad the wife wasn’t into sharing. we don’t all have to be another person’s everything. that’s a lot of pressure. I hopeNov 18, 2019 at 1:39pmI hope you end up being betrayed by someone who you put your whole life and heart into. You are an asshole and so is he. You should feel awfulNov 18, 2019 at 1:52pmIf there married.Whats the point, they will never leave their partner. Would you want them that way ? Anyway!You like sloppy seconds.Marriage is a joke now a days.Piece of dam paper, No substance.And food for thought " they cheated on their spouse".Guess whatThey will probably cheat on you too.You willing to just sex up someone, for no love in return.Becareful, you will break your own heart! Too lateNov 19, 2019 at 2:18amWhatever gave you the idea that this was a bad idea sure showed up late to the party. Have fun with that guilt and shame! eeshNov 19, 2019 at 1:41pmI feel that the gay people and Europeans of a certain class handle these things better. However, that is only an impression I get from watching a lot of movies. Maybe everyone is too horny to be faithful and too jealous and righteous to handle it! (Except you, dear Confessions reader. You are perfect and so is your spouse.) @eeshNov 19, 2019 at 3:33pmIf you can't promise to be faithful, don't make that promise. If your future partner doesn't expect that promise, feel free to get married (but it's still probably a good idea to let each other know when you end up sticking your parts into the parts of someone else not in your relationship). If your future partner does want that promise, then they shouldn't be your future partner. If you decide to go ahead with the marriage anyways, they won't be your partner for long.Also, I have a European friend. She (and her mom) knows that her dad has slept with other women outside of his marriage. Her mom is not happy about it. It has really put a strain on their marriage. They fight all the time.Relationships aren't perfect in the movies - European or North American. @i hear youNov 19, 2019 at 5:59pmNo need to share. I'm sure she'd be happy to get rid of the cheater, so you can have her sloppy seconds for yourself. If someone wants a open/poly relationship, then ask for that. Don't be a lying, selfish a$$hole by cheating and hurting your partner. thanksNov 19, 2019 at 7:12pmfor an actual confession. Please tell more This thing called lifeNov 20, 2019 at 1:17amI don’t know what your intentions were when you told her. Either way it’s done and if you think you made the right decision because maybe you were remorseful or if you were doing it in hopes he would leave her. Find it in your heart to forgive yourself, they might not be able to but we are only able to control how we ourselves feel LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?