Dazed and confused
posted June 2nd, 2015 at 12:49 AM
I've been with the same guy for nearly four years, he is my best friend, but I feel like that's all we are now. I don't want to be the one constantly initiating sex attempting to rekindle that spark we once had. Now I'm doubting that the spark was ever there. Maybe it was all an illusion and in the end I got what I wanted and that's it...
7 Comments
Post a CommentMaybe is was there...
Jun 2, 2015 at 2:10am
...but you two have since changed.
Hmmm
Jun 2, 2015 at 4:44am
I've been there before, in fact I am at that stage with a woman I've known for about the same time. It goes both ways when it's a fwb type situation but it usually seems to boil down to not communicating enough about it openly with each other. Like right now I think she wants it like I do but I am afraid to bring it up. She may feel the exact same way as I do. Ugh! Good luck to you :)
Diggy
Jun 2, 2015 at 6:57am
Aaaaw that's sad.
What you need to do is confront him on this and tell him exactly how you're feeling, just like you've posted here. He's got some work to do if he wants to keep you and your love strong, that's what you need to tell him. Hey buddy, jack up the spontaneity and creativity and get loving your woman right!
Take someone new for a spin
Jun 2, 2015 at 9:38am
Sex is always so crazy and frequent when you start a new relationship, maybe you'll meet someone who wants to do all the exact nasty shit you want!
I am
Jun 2, 2015 at 11:23am
Pretty sure this is common in most relationships. Don't feel glum
GeorgeB
Jun 2, 2015 at 12:00pm
Sad but true, the spark seems to fade out in even the best relationships.
Zing
Jun 6, 2015 at 9:26pm
Maybe your fat and hes not that into blubber
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