Doing it backwards

A lot of people seem to let themselves go somehow when they are in a relationship. I think I do the opposite. I care more about my appearance, health, mood, social life, etc more when I am dating someone because I want to be the best I can for them. Then when I am single, I think I have no one who will appreciate those efforts, so I let things slide. I think I'm doing it wrong.

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Anonymous

Jan 12, 2018 at 9:25am

I'm very much the same. My partner is the opposite. Haha.

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For Me

Jan 12, 2018 at 2:07pm

It's generally been theopposite. someone meets me when i'm visibly doing well and expressing myself creatively. Eventually, they move in, I lose my job or soemthing and we break up, resulting in no job or home and depression (and i've gotten rid of my furniture so none of that either). after a year or so i get myself together again and am noticed by the next one and the cycle repeats itself.

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