Hi it's the OP for the post about asking that guy out. I was going to ask him yesterday but I saw him smiling alot while texting which made it seem like he had a girlfriend so I decided not to for now. I should have just asked him out months ago instead of waiting until almost a year later hahaha!

Still masturbating in my 50's. ;)

I wonder more about the lurker obsessively rating old confessions.

Uh, right. More like just looking for gossip. If you really hoped everyone was ok, you would publish posts fairly. The ones with people hoping to connect. But you don't. You either don't publish them or delete them, yet will publish threats, clear troll posts, and harassing posts pretending to be someone else. All for the glory of TROLLERY. So you, you are the one who doesn't care about people.

I'm "Follow ups" - not a moderator, just someone who reads the column. Thx to the girl @ I chickened out for the update. I still wish you luck moving forward.

How do you know he was obsessively rating "old" confessions?

maybe not chicken out just yet. it might not even be what you think. maybe just give it a little more time and see what happens.

And he’s in jail now!

Agree. Maybe he was smiling because his friend got a new car. Who knows. Time will tell.

How do you know I was talking about the op? But "he", freudian slip.