Devastated…

Again. I thought this time it may be different …

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do better

Feb 2, 2023 at 1:52pm

if you want things to be different, you have to do things differently, including owning up to and repairing our part of the damage along the way

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Somethings are never meant to be

Feb 2, 2023 at 3:15pm

Maybe you should find and try something different.

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Im not devastated

Feb 2, 2023 at 4:30pm

But I thought it would be different too. Ushering in a new era that in actuality is the same old prepackaged over processed heap of toxicity. Maybe they candate themselves until they get it right.

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Maybe it's your lack

Feb 3, 2023 at 4:18pm

Of communication skills

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Not this time

Feb 3, 2023 at 7:13pm

I was the person who was “devastated” over and over again. By the same person no less. But not this time. I guess I’m just a slow learner, but after all those years I finally realized that I was barking up the wrong tree.
Some people are just not relationship material, no matter how much they fake being that way.

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Get in line

Feb 7, 2023 at 9:34am

It happens to everyone !
Just give up I have.

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@Not this time

Feb 7, 2023 at 7:26pm

Barking? Did you even lift a finger?
Jerk them around enough and you will stop getting the love and devotion you took for granted. In its place is a harsh yet accurate mirror showing you all the garbage that you dished out that you know doesn't look good, and instead of owning it, apologizing and making amends, you let your self-entitlement take over by taking offense. Done with as much coldness as you give out, too, a quality you took pride in having until you were on the receiving end.
They were great relationship material. You killed experiencing any of that with constant gameplaying and cowardice. And here you are, still doing that, putting self-pity over accountability because your ego means more to you than anyone else does that doesn't fill your material needs or elevate your status. How does it feel to live the life of everyone else's expectations while they could care less about your opinions? Enjoy that prison of keeping up appearances. Glad you think it was worth more than love to be alone in a crowded room of people who have no idea who you really are. Talk about being fake....

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@@Not this time

Feb 13, 2023 at 7:25pm

Not you again. I am not whoever you’re writing about. Absolutely NOTHING you’ve said comes close to describing the relationship I had or how I treated the other person. In fact it was the other person who treated me that way. It just took me a long time to finally realize that nothing was ever going to change, so in spite of how I felt, I just had to end it. Please stop assuming that everything is about you.

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@@@not this time

Feb 14, 2023 at 9:42pm

These posts can be by anyone for anyone, and I'm capitalizing on that so thanks. You need to get over whoever you're moaning about, that you keep posting passively over and over, hoping they'll reply. ;P

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